Dragonfly Healing Arts



What is mediumship?

Dragonfly on Purple Sharon Farber original watercolor Mediumship

Mediumship is when an embodied person communicates with recognizable spirits of those who are considered dead. We spend our physical lifetime on earth with a body. When that life is over, our consciousness survives and passes into the world of spirit. The spirit world is separated from the physical world by dimension and frequency, but not location. Our loved ones in spirit are near us, and can be reached when we adjust to their vibration. The process is similar to changing stations on a radio; you need to tune in to the correct frequency to choose whom or what you listen to. Mediums raise their vibration and use their intention to connect with spirit people who intentionally lower their vibration to connect with us. The innate ability to shift your energy to connect with those in spirit varies with individuals and can be purposefully developed. Evidential mediumship proves that our loved ones still exist on this other plane, and continue to be a part of our lives. Mediums receive information from spirit people that identifies who they are, how they are connected to the living person, and often relay messages of love, support, and healing. This process can help the bereaved come to terms with their loss and help all of us lose our fear of death. It can also be helpful for the spiritual growth of the deceased. 

Effective mediumship requires the cooperation of the medium, the communicator (spirit person), and the sitter (person receiving the reading). The medium quiets their conscious mind to access a higher vibration and receives information in ways which may include pictures, symbols, names, sounds, tastes and smells. Ethical, responsible mediums will not relay information that creates fear or distress. They are sensitive and compassionate, and work to provide comfort and healing for the highest good of all.

Mediumship has been practiced since the beginning of recorded history, and by all known ancient civilizations. It was an accepted and normal occurrence for many societies. People do not need to have a specific religious faith to believe in or practice mediumship.

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Boundaries in Mediumship video

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Mediumship Development Circle:

  • Wednesdays, 7:30 – 9 pm
  • Facilitated by Sharon
  • Mixed level
  • Beginners welcome
  • Weekly attendance not required
  • $10 donation

The focus of this circle is to help participants develop their evidential mediumship; provide an opportunity to receive and/or provide messages, and to bring together people with the common interest of spirit communication. All levels of experience are welcome, but a beginner level mediumship class and/or some personal experience with mediumship is beneficial.

Contact Sharon if you are interested in joining: 860 989-2358 sharon@sharonfarber.net

Guest Circle

We invite guests to attend circle as “sitters,” to receive readings, on the first Wednesday of each month. This is a mediumship demonstration. Circle members (who choose to) take turns giving readings with the intention that the connections will be for our guests. Guest sitters need no experience but should be receptive to spirit. We take approximately 4 guests each “1st Wednesday,” on a first to sign up basis, with a suggested $10.00 donation from each. Register as a guest by contacting Sharon: 860 989-2358 or sharon@sharonfarber.net.

New members must attend a regular circle before participating in a Guest Circle.

Mediumship Development Circles Video

Private Readings: Sharon Farber offers private readings by telephone, FaceTime, Skype, and in person. Private readings are approximately 45 minutes. These are evidential mediumship readings to connect with your loved ones in spirit. The intent is to get validating information from those on the other side who will present knowledge and descriptions you will recognize. Sometimes she get names. There may be messages. There is no guarantee that a specific loved one will come through. Schedule a reading by phone or email. Please don’t give any information about yourself or whom you’re hoping to hear from. Please request a reading only if you are open and excited about connecting to loved ones in spirit. Let your loved ones in spirit know when you have scheduled a reading and invite them to attend.

Small Group Readings:  Small group readings are available with Sharon Farber for two to four people. These are done in person by appointment at Dragonfly Healing Arts, at 8 Wickett Street in Pine Meadow, CT. Other locations are possible. Sessions runs from 1 to 1.25 hours. Please call or email if you have questions.

Friday night Mediumship Demonstrations: Four to eight individuals (some who might know each other) as opposed to a group of friends or family

Private Consultations:

  • Do you see dead people?
  • Hear things?
  • Are you frightened, excited, or both?
  • Private consultations with Sharon are available in person and by phone.

Sharon Farber original watercolor Dragonfly Healing Arts mediumship


  • Private reading: $70 for 45 minutes, by phone or in person
  • Two people: $90 for 1 hour
  • Three people: $100 for 1 – 1 1/4 hours
  • Four – six people: $25 per person for 1 1/4  to 1 1/2 hours
  • Groups at other locations: ask for quote
  • Mediumship Demonstration for 4 – 8 people: $20 per person
  • All session times include a brief introduction
  • Private consultations: $25 per hour
  • Circle: $10 donation

Friday night Mediumship Demonstration with Sharon 

  • 8 PM
  • Connect with loved ones in spirit
  • Four to eight people
  • $20 
  • Friday, March 9
  • Friday, April 6


Mediumship classes with Sharon

Monday, Feb. 12: Business 101 for Mediums and Healers

  • 7 – 8:30 pm
  • Lecture with time for Q & A
  • $25

Topics include:

  • When to charge, what to charge and how to charge
  • Creating an office space (in your home, rent, share)
  • Setting boundaries (client relationships, no show and late clients…)
  • Finding clients (advertising, internet options like Facebook and Groupon)
  • Setting boundaries (client relationships, no show and late clients…)
  • Inappropriate clients
  • Scheduling
  • Pacing and self care

Thursday, March 22: Introduction to Mediumship

With Sharon Farber

  • 7 – 8:30 pm
  • No experience needed
  • Lecture, discussion, Q & A
  • $18
  • What is mediumship and how does it work?
  • Can one learn to be a medium, and how?
  • Spirit guides and helpers
  • And much more

Saturday, April 7: One-day Beginner Mediumship Class

  • 10 – 4
  • 6 – 10 students
  • No experience needed
  • Lecture and participatory exercises
  • Individual attention
  • Work in pairs and groups
  • $75

Learn the basics of spirit communication

  • What is (and isn’t) mediumship and how does it work?
  • Types of mediumship
  • Evidential mediumship
  • Grounding and Raising your vibration
  • Ritual and Setting your intention
  • Getting evidence
  • Giving messages
  • Private and Group readings
  • Self care and boundaries
  • Ethics and Responsibility


What you should know before your reading:

1.  Do not give me any information about yourself or your loved ones prior to your reading. The less I know, the better.

2. This is evidential mediumship. The purpose is to connect with your loved ones in spirit with enough detail that you can clearly recognize them. There may be messages.

3.  This is not a psychic reading and is not about your past, present, or future. I will not predict death, illness, or other distressing circumstances.

4.  Nothing will be evil or scary. There is nothing to fear.

5.  The spirit people I connect with will be coming through with love and good intentions. Even so, if someone presents that you don’t want to hear from, tell me, and I will end the connection.

6.  I will describe the spirit person and ask if you recognize them. Please answer with “yes,” “no,” or “I don’t know.” Avoid offering unsolicited information.

7.  You don’t need to accept every fragment of information. If you can’t take all of it, tell me what you do understand. The connection gets stronger when the spirit person is claimed.

8.  The spirit person coming through might not be one of your closest loved ones. It may be someone you have not thought about in years, would not expect to hear from, might not have liked, and you might not be certain they are dead. Please think outside the box if you are trying to recognize somebody whose identity isn’t immediately clear.

9.  Please be patient and respectful if the person coming through is not the one you were anticipating. They might be able to help bring through the person you are hoping to hear from.

10.  Spirit people can choose to present themselves at any age. Elderly people may show up in their prime, when they were healthy and independent. They may choose to appear at the age when you had the most contact with them or when the relationship was the strongest.

11.  Tell me if you recognize a person I am describing, but they are not dead. There are several reasons this might happen. A person with dementia or in a coma may come through as if they are in spirit. A spirit person might describe a live person as evidence to help you determine their own identity, or because they want you to give a message to that person.